Saturday, December 22, 2018

Merry Chickmas 2018





















The holidays are not an easy time for many for one reason or another, myself included, so I thought I would hopefully put a smile on your face by sharing this sweet picture of my Thanksgiving babies with their momma all decked out for Christmas. Wishing all of you a very Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year!!! Remember the reason for the season and cherish the time spent with your loved ones. Please be kind to one another and be safe if you're traveling. I would also like to extend a special Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of our servicemen and women and thank them once again for their service and sacrifice. My Christmas wish is that all of the animals in shelters across the United States have a warm and loving Christmas and find their forever homes very soon, and that any animal that is lost finds its way back home safely, and that humans choose to be kind and loving and empathetic to one another in the new year and beyond. Blessings to you all!!!!

MERRY CHICKMAS!!! ❤️💚

Til next year.....

Wednesday, December 12, 2018

One Second Delay

Ah grief. That thing that never leaves you. That thing that sneaks up on you when you plan on having a good day and it decides otherwise. That tricky lil buggar that is supposed to be "cured" the more time goes on. Grief. The reality is that it never leaves you. When you lose someone that means so much to you, the grief you feel from losing them is with you every single day. There is something I have noticed since losing my Owen and my Sisco. I call it the "one second delay". You know how TV has the three second delay, so that they can fix any naughty words or whatever they don't want actually airing? Well, grief has a one second delay. On those nights where you actually find yourself sleeping peacefully and your mind is filled with wonderful dreams, when you wake up, there is one second where your brain actually forgets about the grief you live with daily. There is one second where you feel calm and without a care in the world. There is one second where you haven't lost anyone. And then, the second is gone. Your brain kicks in and kicks out all of those calm, peaceful feelings, and the grief comes rushing back in, reminding you full force that your loved ones are still gone and your grief lives on. Blah. The holidays bring out the grief the worst in me. I will make sure to post a happy post soon.

Til then....